When you first read the title, you
probably think how miserable it is to be single in your 20s. Seeing couples
holding hands on the street or a girl walking with a bucket of flower on her
hand, how could you really enjoy being single?
That what I thought so before I read
the similar article. And honestly I am surprised of what I never thought I can
and experience at this moment. So I decided to list 20 reasons why we should
enjoy being single in our 20s.
1. You can flirt with almost anyone you
like.
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From
a hot ‘Chris Pine twin’ co-worker to a cute tattooed guy you meet while queuing
for an ice cream or even a sexy cute waiter who is apparently too young for
you, go flirt as much as you want, girls! You don’t have to be worry about a
pair of jealous eyes of your partner.
2.
You
can make a decision based on what you like and what you want to do.
Whether
you are still a college student or a full time worker, you can make a decision
or change planning. From continue studying, find a new job, quit your job,
volunteer, travel, move to a new apartment or city or even country, you can do
what you want to do in your life based on what you really want to do, without
having to consider what your partner will think.
3.
You
can laugh out loud.
Thing
that you probably won’t dare to do in front of your boyfriend is
to laugh out loud because you don’t want him to find you ugly. But hey, you can
do that now!
4.
You
can spend time with your family and friends.
Though
it sounds pathetic spending Saturday night with family or friends instead of
your boyfriend, but to be honest it can be a bit of a fresh
air for you who used to stick with your guy almost every night.
5.
You
don’t have to inform anyone if you are going home late or staying over at
friend’s house.
6.
Travel.
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7.
You
are the “Starfish Queen” on your bed.
8.
Trying
out new things.
Make
a list of things that you never thought you would do: “diving, cooking,
basking, mount hiking, beach camping, cave tubing,…” Go ahead, do it girls! You
will be surprised to find yourself enjoy doing those new things.
9. Have I mentioned travel?
10. For the first time in your life, you’re only accountable to yourself: no boyfriend or parents to stop you from doing what you want.
11. Take care of someone else? Hmmmm I am still trying to figure out how to takecare of myself.
12. You will finally realize that it’s better to be single and happy than to be in a shitty relationship.
And right now
I choose to enjoy being single to the max!
and hope you
too :)
Danya
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